If you know me you probably know I am a bit competitive. You may not realize how much so. I like to win. I am okay with losing if someone else deserves to win, but I like to win. Sometimes I even compete with myself. If there is something I don't want to do (like unload the dishwasher, fold laundry, study, etc.) I will set a realistic goal of how long it should take, then I cut off a chunk of the time, set a timer and see if I can do it. I also don't let my kids win when we play a game. I tell them to do their best and eventually they will pass me up and then it will be a true victory. Now, I don't cream them. But they do have to work for a victory.
This summer I made a chart of things the kids need to do everyday. There is unloading the dishwasher, walking the dog, cleaning their rooms, vacuuming, reading, math worksheet, etc. Each time they complete an item they get a point. At the end of the week there are prizes for obtaining 50, 75, 100 points and to the one with the most points. Mia is unmotivated, but Justin and Emma are hilarious. Justin gets up early and works on items before Emma has a chance. Yesterday I whispered something to Emma that she could do to get a point. Justin tried to overhear and yelled "Oh, yea? I am going to clean up dog pooh first!" as he ran out. Funny thing was, I didn't say anything about dog pooh. This is the first time Justin has cleaned it up with such vigor. Then today I asked Emma to do it and Justin followed her around cleaning up anything she missed so that he could get credit too. He even cleaned her bedroom while she was in the shower so he could get that point.
Another bonus, Justin just told Mia "I just cleaned the family room. Don't mess it up." Muh, ha, ha, my plan is working.
*Disclaimer: Charlie originally suggested some sort of list.